Returning home

In the hero’s journey, the hero leaves the relative peace of home to confront calamity out in the world. Only once they have slain the dragon (literally or metaphorically) can they return peace to the kingdom.

In contrast, the antihero begins their journey already out in the world. They’ve perhaps spent years in pursuit of the dragon, trying to save the world, or on whatever quest they believed would bring them greatness.

But eventually, exhausted and jaded, they decide to return home. Rather than attempting to resolve the chaos in the world, they set out to resolve the turmoil within themselves—the storms that have always raged inside them, often originating in their childhood home. They put down their arms, seeking to build a true foundation of peace.

For the hero, the foundation of their journey is vanquishing an existential threat; only through that confrontation can they enact lasting peace.

For the antihero, the script is flipped. The foundation of their journey is cultivating lasting peace within themselves. This is not an act of turning their back on a world in need. It’s an act of turning toward and confronting themselves. Only through this inner confrontation can they finally cultivate peace—and only from that deep well can they make their highest contribution to the world.


This is an excerpt from my upcoming book The Antihero’s Journey: From Burnout to Real Contribution in Polycrisis Times. To read other excerpts, go here.


Coach, writer, and recovering hustle hero. I help purpose-driven humans do good in the world in dark times - without the burnout.


More Antiheroes' Blog posts


  • Feeling the sadness all the way through

    Feeling the sadness all the way through

    If I can't fully feel the sadness – and whatever other feelings come along with this change – then I can't fully acknowledge and honor…


  • Access all the energy and motivation you could ever want

    Access all the energy and motivation you could ever want

    Every single one of us can absolutely cultivate all the energy we could ever need to sustain our lives and careers through joy-and-love-based energies. And…


  • How much does coaching cost?

    How much does coaching cost?

    Different coaches charge wildly different amounts. These days, the lowest cost might be $100-$150 per hour. But some coaches charge well over $1000 an hour.…