Peace practice #1: Reducing the volume of work
The aspiring hero takes on lofty ambitions for what they do in the world. In contrast, the antihero learns to cultivate humbler aspirations.
Insights on inner transformation and outer contribution from my coaching program, Antihero Project.
The aspiring hero takes on lofty ambitions for what they do in the world. In contrast, the antihero learns to cultivate humbler aspirations.
Peace requires active, daily tending, not because we are broken but because the world we live in is relentlessly trying to disrupt us, relentlessly beckoning us to want and do more.
Antiheroes claim their peace not just as an act of self-care, but as a deeply liberatory and revolutionary act. Their peace is not only a precondition for their change work; it itself becomes the change they offer the world.
Even in the wildest hurricanes, the depths of the ocean remain calm, tranquil, unmoved. The ocean is so vast and deep that its core state remains undisturbed. This is the kind of peace antiheroes are after.
As antiheroes, we first and foremost strive to cultivate a foundation of peace. Peace, in its fullest sense, is not merely the absence of conflict — it is the absence
For the antihero, the foundation of their journey is cultivating lasting peace within themselves. This is not an act of turning their back on a world in need. It’s an act of turning toward and confronting themselves.
The antihero begins in the extraordinary world, striving for greatness, exhausted and lost. But one day, they hear the call to peace, beckoning them to put down their weapons, to put down their ambitions, to put down their need to go it alone and save the world, so they can finally restore that aliveness they lost long ago.
An antihero is someone — anyone — who challenges the constant societal pressure to achieve something extraordinary, be great, or save the world.
In mythical worlds, one person — perhaps with a trusted ally or two — can and must slay the dragon and restore the kingdom. In a single decisive act, the world is saved. This is the heroic view of social change.
The polycrisis framing creates an almost mythic obstacle in our path, just as terrifying and seemingly insurmountable as Sauron in Lord of the Rings, the Emperor in Star Wars, or the machines in The Matrix.