Antihero Project

After a big life choice — a new job, a new city, the end of a relationship — it’s almost impossible not to ask: did I make the right decision? Here’s why that question keeps you stuck, and the reframe that helps you stop second-guessing, commit to your path, and move forward.

“Should” and “supposed to” only bring suffering. When we practice letting go of should, new worlds of possibility open up for us.

Both the progress narrative and the doom narrative trap us in certainty — and inaction. The truth: we don’t know what tomorrow brings, and that matters.

You feel it every day: too much information, too many choices, too little clarity about what actually works. This is the VUCA world. And for change agents, finding a way to wade into its depths without being swept away is no small feat.

Not all psychedelic spirituality looks like visions and spirit beings. This is a counterintuitive take on what these experiences can reveal — and the strange paradox of a practice grounded in what’s real.

Is the world not beautiful enough already? A counterintuitive take on the “more beautiful world” we keep chasing — and why our awe of the world we already inhabit might be the most powerful fuel for change we have.

Most of us are waiting for the promotion before we give ourselves permission to lead. But self-leadership doesn’t require a title. It’s about owning whoever you really are — right now — in service to your team and its mission. You can be a leader right now.

We do not choose what we dream. At best, we can choose which of our many dreams we pursue.

There is actually significant overlap between my shoulding and what I genuinely want to do. And yet, these aspirations can be so much more liberating, joyful, and easeful than I’ve made them in the past.